Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Secret #1 The Horizontal Scan

From Section 1, The Art Of Body Language, Chapter 2, page 13:

TITLE: Always Watch The Eyes

The eyes are the window to the soul. They will always betray what a person is thinking, if you're deft enough to pay attention to them.

I'm going to share some secrets about eye contact with you that is going to help you meet women like crazy. I hope you're ready for them, because I'm really spilling the beans here.

Are you ready for it?

Here they come:

Secret #1: The Vertical Scan

This is a major body language cue, and one that is hard to pick up if you're not paying attention. Think about a woman you've seen that you found attractive. What did you do? Catch one look at her face, then looked down over her body, going from head to foot, right?

In short, you were checking her out.

Women do the same thing. When they see a man they're attracted to, their eyes will go from his face to his feet, because they want to see the whole package.

When you make eye contact with a woman, look at what her eyes do. If they flick downwards, guess what? She just checked you out!

She liked what she saw in your face, and wanted to see the rest of you. It doesn't matter if she looks away immediately afterwards, because she was attracted enough to you to check you out. That, my friends, is a major signal that she will be open to you approaching her (especially if the vertical scan is followed by a smile!).

The only problem with this great signal is that it's so easy to miss! Women you haven't noticed yet may have already done it. Also, it's such a quick action, you can easily miss it if you're not careful.

So when looking for the eye scan, always pay careful attention!

Tomorrow's Tip: The Horizontal Scan

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